A few days ago, a miracle happened to my friend.
Well, when you think about it, in depth and medically, objectively, and statistically, it is a miracle. The fact that it happens about 353,000 times a day around the world does not diminish the joy, the awe and profound sense of wonder for the new parents when it happens to them.
What was so quirky about this baby’s path is that a month before he was conceived, my friend, Wendy, had decided to have a tubal ligation. I remember asking her if she was sure. Once these procedures are done, there’s usually no going back. It’s done. She said, yes. She didn’t want anymore babies, didn’t want to be pregnant and in her thirties.
The day before her procedure is scheduled, she cancels. Doesn’t want to do it. When I saw her again, I hugged her and then asked again, Are you sure? She was sure; said it didn’t feel right. I guess she knew, because here he is, 10 months later, her intuition. The labor was all of one hour and 30 minutes long and relatively easy. I say relatively, since the uterus really didn’t have any time to adjust, like in longer labors, and she was having the worst cramps when I took that picture. She was near tears. Needless to say, I didn’t stay long. I know when I’m in pain, I don’t want to maintain friendly conversation!
I was just so happy for her, I had to write about it!
Now for the poncho. (If you know of a better segue, please let me know! The miracle of birth and life is a tough act to follow.) The way I’m putting it together feels more like a vest…poncho? Anyway – no sleeves! Yay! It’s a gift for my postal carrier, so I thought of how she works and what she does. I didn’t want the standard poncho design, because it would get in her way. I’ve been seeing pictures of ponchos that have buttons on the side and look sensible and relatively easy to make, especially when you’re lifting boxes and moving all day long. It wouldn’t get in the way. So, with a gleam in my eye, I decided to create my own design. I did ask her favorite color, and she likes green also! I didn’t want to overwhelm her with a monochromatic palette, so I added in some festive yarn.
Now I have a bit of a dilemma. I have decided to drop it off at her work when it’s finished, which should be within a week. My great fear is that she won’t like it. You know how it is when you’re making someone a handcrafted gift. Should I leave it anonymously and let her figure it out? Or, should I let her know, so she knows whom she should be disappointed with? (I know…bad sentence structure!) Or is there another way I’m not thinking of? I’m making a poll, so please let me know!